Allah says, "And forbid them what is bad." - (Surah Al-'Araf, 7:157)
"O ye who believe! Intoxicants and gambling are an abomination of Satan's handiwork. Eschew such abominations that ye may prosper." - (Surah Al Ma'idah, 5:93)
"And slay not the life which Allah hath forbidden..." - (Surah, Al-Isra, 17:33)
"And make not your own hands contribute to your destruction." - (Surah, Al-Baqara, 2:195)
"Nor kill or destroy yourselves for verily Allah hath been to you most Merciful." (Surah, An-Nisa, 4:29)
Prophet Mohammed (peace & blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Nor be hurt or injure others."
It is scientifically proven that the exhaled smoke of the smoker is hazardous to non-smokers around him.
Breathing of smoke caused by someone else is known as "passive smoking". It is also known as involuntary smoking or second hand smoking. Approximately 50,000 non smoker deaths from heart related issues can be linked to passive smoking each year.
Allah says: "But squander not your wealth in the manner of a spend thrift, verily spendthrifts are brothers of evils." - (Surah, Al-Isra, 17:26, 27)
The amount of money a smoker spends on cigarette smoking in a period of 30 years is calculated to be Two Hundred Thousand Dollars or more. All this money is simply wasted (not including the money spent on smoker's health care).
Suggestion: Quit this evil act, repent to Allah and do not stay around such friends;
The Qur'an informs us that on the Day of Judgment there will be people who will bite their hands in regret that they were lead astray because of choosing wrong people as their friends, they would say;
"Woe to me! Would that I had never taken so-and-so as a friend! He indeed led me astray from the Reminder (this Qur'an) after it had come to me.' (The Glorious Qur'an 25: 27)
Therefore; Smoking is absolutely Haram, and Allah knows best
"Any good is from Allah & the mistakes were from myself"
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No Laughing, Joking, Hanging out , flirting or playful talk, With Non-Mahrams .
Some sisters assume that since they are properly... covered, its okay for them to sit around and talk, laugh, joke, etc. with the men, but that’s not right, even if he is ‘the Shaikh’. Allaah says:
". . . then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease should be moved with desire, but speak in an honorable manner." [al-Ahzaab:32]
So talk to them when there is a specific need, and in a manner that is not necessarily rude, yet it is polite but firm.
Staring at the brothers or ‘checking them out’ is NOT Hijaab
Allaah orders us to “lower your gaze” in the above verse. Why? Because a single ‘look’ can say more than a thousand words. So, even if you are properly covered, keep those eyes down, conduct yourself with ‘Hayaa’, and avoid ‘fitnah’
‘Chatting’ on the internet/phone is not part of Hijaab .
It is haraam for a man or woman to listen to eachothers words with enjoyment, for fear of fitnah (temptation)
There is no such thing as “we’re just friends”. Talking to non-Mahrams is wrong even if it is through the internet or telephone. There are too many stories of illegal relationships, fornications, broken homes, extra-marital affairs and runaway brides to even mention. That is why in Islam anything that leads to haraam is also haraam. Allaah says:
“Do not (even) come close to fornication, for it is an indecency, and its way is evil.” (Surah Israa:32)
HALAL :
( Woman should speak without elongating the words, making her voice soft, or raising her voice. It is forbidden being too soft in speech. It is obligatory for women to speak in an honourable manner. So that there will be no room for provocation of desires and doubts. She should speak only when necessary, and only about matters that are permissible and honourable, not evil )
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